This is my story

So why did I start 'vacation4men'? What I realized after talking with many men like myself was that not everyone's first experience in Thailand is the same. I was lucky to have a trusted friend who looked out for me, and kept me out of situations that were, frankly, over my head. That's what my business is designed to do: introduce you to the most positive features of Thailand, while helping you avoid the traps that some first-time visitors experience.'

There are those among us that have reached a stage in our lives where our children have grown up and left the nest. We have worked all of our lives at one or several jobs to give our families what they needed. Some of us are now divorced, separated or are living in a dead end marriage and are only staying together because as the song goes, "it's cheaper to keep her".

Even though we are doing what we want when we want daily, it seems like we are drifting through the mid to later years of our life feeling a void of companionship.

We hang out in bars, or try the online dating services looking for miss right. The shallow games of dating are frustrating and the relationships are illusive.

Hello, my name is Joe. I am an average guy, 50, divorced and I have worked for 33 years in the same job (http://www.joeebejer.com/) and am now semi-retired. I have 4 beautiful children who are all grown and well on the way to running their own lives.

Like many of my buddies I have come to realize that the culture we live in is one where women in the dating scene are so guarded that many of them become rude and offensive from us just saying a simple hello. For me all that changed when a friend of mine, I'll call him "GW" suggested I come to Thailand and visit him for a couple of weeks. It was the trip that changed my life beyond my wildest dreams.

Upon my arrival in Thailand, one thing immediately stood out. The women are stunningly beautiful and seem ageless. I became mesmerized by their respectful attitude towards men. Especially English speaking North American men. I felt like I was in a wonderland of beautiful women.

Now that being said, I immediately could see how easy it would be for any inexperienced traveler to get into serious trouble in a country where corruption and crime is prevalent on the streets. I felt safe though because my buddy GW knows the lay of the land, where to go and what to stay away from. He quickly taught me to see that Thailand is a safe place to visit and that my journey in life was about to dramatically change for the better.

After booking me into a 4 star hotel. GW took me to a part of the city where the bar scene was like something out of a fictional movie. I was in a sea of beautiful women, any one of which who would be honoured to spend a night, a week, or a lifetime with me. I felt like a kid in a candy store and was in awe! To make a long story short I had the time of my life. I had companionship for the entire duration of my stay. In fact I got to meet and stay with several different beautiful women from the ages of 25 to 35, all of which who treated me like I was the only man on the planet. They showed me respect, passion, and intimacy beyond belief

Every day was like living a week in a dreamland. But soon it was time for me to go back home. For days, weeks, months, the feeling stayed with me so much so that I decided to pack everything up and move to Thailand.

So here I am helping guys like me share in the feeling that seems endless. Thanks to GW and the boys.